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My father is suffering a very dangerous health challenge.

March 2004

A Gift from Heaven

On a 6am United flight to Chicago with my West Highland Terrier, Boswell. Making the pilgrimmage back to Madison WI to sit a couple of tough nights out with my Dad, who's just made it through a heart valve replacement + 2 bypasses at age 81. He was on death's door walking into the hospital on Monday and docs gave it 50/50, which is about 5 times the mortality rate they usually are willing to take on. But somehow he pulls through, instantly making me about 1,000 percent more optimistic about making it to 150 myself (a personal dream).

The Man I Hope to Someday Be

My Dad is going to leave in the next few hours, and I am going to miss him very much.

I feel very fortunate to have known this man for 41 years. I would have taken more, but this was more than most receive, and for that I thank both him and God.

He will always remain to me the man I hope someday to be.

April 2004

A Eulogy for John E. Barnett

John Barnett lived a life of quiet inspiration. He loved sports, books, music, and theater. He shared these loves with us all, but even more importantly, by setting the example of these great passions, he generated a legacy of talented athletes, gifted scholars, skilled musicians, and insatiable performers.

Look around you, this man’s life raised few waves, yet somehow generated an enormous wake.

His was a life worth emulating: a life of great faith and generosity, a life of service to others, a life of simple joys. Our father couldn’t walk down a street without whistling, couldn’t pass a stranger without saying hello, couldn’t see a need without reaching into his pocket.

My Dad will always remain to me the man I hope someday to become.

May 2004

What do I want to be when I grow up?

Last night was just what the doctor ordered: a big crowd ready for a big performance, and an inveterate showman desperate to remember what it was like to hold an entire ballroom in the palm of his hand. I have never worked a crowd for so many big laughs in my career, and it did me a world of good. On the eve of my 42nd birthday, it reminded me of what really animates my work: the sheer joy of teaching and sharing my ideas with others.

I don’t pretend that what I do makes me better than anyone else, or really any smarter. I just know that it’s what I was meant to do, and I do it better than just about anyone else on the planet. That’s a very nice feeling for your 42nd birthday—the first one following your old man’s passing. It’s a sense of knowing who you are and why God made you this way.

It’s a confidence that allows me to define a global future worth creating and selling it for all it’s worth.

Thank you, Dad, for helping me become that man. Thank you, Lord, for giving me the strength to find purpose in my life.

I can’t wait to get home and hug my kids, kiss my wife, and mow that lawn...

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